The women of our generation have become far more independent than their predecessors.The female workforce has greatly evolved, achieving places of power and success.Financially successful women have it really good for themselves.They can pay their own way, they don’t depend or rely on anyone for financial support.By 2025, more than half the primary breadwinners in America will be women.
We are talking about situations where men get around successful, assertive women and find that to be a net negative.In ancient times, and by ancient I mean prior to the 1980s, men's idea of a perfect woman was one-dimensional.Men sought out women who had the biological qualifications such as wide hips and full breasts for bearing children, as well as women who would generally make good "housewives." It is easy to say the needs of successful men haven't changed and dismiss the matter, but that is not true.They are smart, hard-working, and responsible and in my experience working with them, usually very physically attractive. They are low maintenance, self-supporting, and independent. But alas, it always seems to be the successful woman that comes to me seeking dating help.After working with several dozens of successful women throughout my matchmaking and dating coaching career, I have discovered many patterns that cause their lack of success with dating, and no, they are not what you think. Too Picky – I have found that although most single women are too picky, the vast majority of successful single women are far more picky than the average woman. They have a laundry list of awesome traits that make them have a line of suitors to their door. So with the combination of being too picky and having limited choices, it’s a recipe for perpetual singledom.