You can’t have a relationship, after all, without sharing the same goals or dreams.
' (bad)'I'm going to this cool exhibition (or whatever) this weekend, come!
This is definitely not a bad first date question, on the contrary.
It’s one of those first date questions that will intrigue your partner, or even make him laugh.
The thought that my friend is the last "fish in the sea" will tend to create desperation.
It's tough to keep in mind, but if you do end the relationship, over time you will likely find more opportunities.