Although, I call J "Kid" in this super-cute, ironic way.Every boy has pined for an older woman before, and every girl has pined for an older man before.
Many younger guys are driven to women who are 10 years older than they are or more, as these women are often more confident and more sexually driven and passionate than the younger women.
There is potential that you could never be financially equal to him, accepting this is key.
You may need to start skipping the traditional Thursday through Sunday bar scene with the girls to appease his lifestyle.
But I've been watching and compiled a list of DOs and DON' Ts from Jess's experience dating the sophisticated Dermot Mulroney as Fancypants, who's a whopping twelve years older.
Or, you know, some version of whining about your age. With age (often) comes maturity and chivalry—take advantage!