And I stayed with him because I was young, stupid and thought I was in love. Then, the curveball of all curveballs happened and he DUMPED ME FROM JAIL. I was dumped by a convict from jail and I was upset about it. Yesterday we heard from an ex-con about what it was like for him to transition from life behind bars to life on the outside. – Tim Hurley Be respectful to your parole officer and to those that are helping you to get through a difficult time. – Jerry Spears Hopefully, you learned a trade while incarcerated.The divorce rate among couples where one spouse is incarcerated for one year or more is 80% for men and close to 100% for women.
The sense of being demoralized begins even before a loved one is sent off to prison. There were several issues I didn’t see at the time: 1.) I was 100% the rebound girl – he dated a girl right before me and wasn’t over her. Long story short, we were dating for about 4 months when I found out he tried to kill the new guy his ex-girlfriend was dating. So before we start, let’s agree not to judge me, okay? So, being 16 at the time, naturally I was blind in love. But yea, he tried to kill a guy (over his ex-girlfriend) while we were dating. But after about a year of self-reflection, I thanked the lord above for getting me away from that weirdo! Illinois Frank Sinatra probably wouldn't consider Chicago "His Kind of Town" if he knew about this state law.The consequences for adultery in Illinois is up to a year in jail for cheaters.5.