I spend my days helping these same introverted men attract women naturally, so I’m used to telling them how to better understand women.
It will be fun to flip it around a bit today and put these years of research to work for you!
Also, you need to set some ground rules and boundaries with yourself and know how far you are willing to go.
Most importantly, be open to your potential dates about what suits you and what not.
Introversion can be misread as a lack of interest to some people, so it's always better to say 'I'm an introvert' than to let them think you aren't enjoying their company." —Emily Weeden, Facebook "Become friends with people.
As an introvert, it's hard to meet new people, so try hanging out with people you already know. Where would you go if you could travel anywhere tomorrow morning?
Men approach girls first, they message them on social media and dating sites, so girls have half of the work already done for them. The overall suggestions are that you get comfortable with the idea of dating.
You have to be willing to date because you want so, not because it is expected from you to find a partner.
It made me more comfortable knowing the area, what kind of food there was, etc., so I could focus on the person and talking to them rather than the atmosphere or what I would order." —Stephanie Combs, Facebook "Go to events your more extroverted friends invite you to.
If they’re a little slower to express themselves, or if their expression feels a bit more understated than you’re used to, understand that it doesn’t mean they’re not feeling. At that point, you’re giving off positive and relaxed vibes.
With the frame of reference that you’ve discovered an incredibly dynamic and interesting person, you put them at ease.
Want to woo the woman of your dreams but are seriously shy and socially awkward? Look for the signs they’re interested Ask any dating coach and they’ll tell you how crucial signs of interest are. The key to success when it comes to dating – this applies to anyone and everyone – is to look for signs the other person is in the right place to be approached.
If you see someone you like the look of, take the time to figure out if they’re interested in you. If she or he looks tired, fed up, or stressed out, it’s best to leave them be, you can always ask them out another time.