So, I won’t make you wait any longer to find out the most shocking moments from this week’s episode of The Bachelorette: 1.De Mario showed up at the mansion, trying to get a spot back in the house, but Rachel was not having it! ) revealed that Rachel’s a great kisser while on group date on The Ellen Show (as Ellen said, “he clearly kisses and tells”), which then launched a sort of pissing contestant between him and Will — who agreed that Rachel was a kissing a pro — and then somehow, Bryan managed to call Rachel his sloppy seconds! Rachel sent Fred home in the middle of the group date, even after he confessed that Rachel was rooted deep in his soul (which was extremely premature, odd, and just plain uncomfortable to even hear). Rachel and Anthony rode horses on Rodeo Drive (they even went shopping in a few stores while atop the horses) and it was actually kind of cute – besides the part where one of the horses took a dump in the middle of a store. Raven, Corinne, Jasmine, and Dolphin girl (Alexis), all showed up to help Rachel for quite the unforgettable group date – mud wrestling! Surprise, surprise, wrestler Kenny lost the wrestling competition to model Brody (It was his one time to shine and he blew it – LOL) 9.Hope you took notes because Rachel Lindsay set everyone one straight on tonight’s episode of The Bachelorette (and she didn’t even break a sweat)!#Rach Taught Me The Dallas lawyer brought her A-game as she dealt with the aftermath of cheater De Mario (yes, he managed to leave quite the mess in his wake), sent multiple guys home (there were even a few surprise exits), and managed to connect with some under-the-radar suitors (she had her hands full this week, and still managed to handle it all like the boss she is).All that stated, I must admit that I'm also a hard-nosed realist when it comes to love.And overall, I think it's wise for women to maintain a balanced sense of romance & realism when it comes to matters of the heart.But do you really want to sign up for that life or bet on those odds? Here are a few ways to tell if a man sees you as a forever girlfriend and not a future wife: 1. And here's another line: "We'll get there." I've seen some of the smartest women fall for these lines. 2- She's adding chocolate chips to her cheese omelet.
4- Her husband is suddenly agreeing to everything she says.In alignment with a few of my other articles, I DO NOT have the secret recipe for dating success.A tried-and-true strategy with a 95% success rate has not been uncovered since the “Bend and Snap” circa 2001 in Legally Blonde.Any girl will tell you, regardless of sexuality or originally-assigned gender, this is usually not the case.While it might be relatively easy for girls to get a guy (or girl), it’s just as difficult for them to get the one they want.