Our love is secure enough that we don't need a wedding to prove our love and commitment."She adds, "We are enjoying our daughter, our family and our work for now."(Aguilera was married to Jordan Bratman from 2005-2011.)Whether they will have another baby before tying the knot is anyone's guess."Right now my focus is geared on my work since I stopped the world for Summer last year," Aguilera, 34, reveals.Valentine's Day was especially romantic for Christina Aguilera!The pop diva announced her engagement to boyfriend Matt Rutler on social media, flashing a picture of her gorgeous rock.The "Beautiful" singer and her man were spotted holding hands and wrapping their arms around each other as they posed for photos at the Fifth Annual Baby2Baby Gala.Christina opted for a black jumpsuit with a plunging neckline while Matthew wore a classic suit and tie with comfy sneakers.Guests including Kate Hudson, Jessica Alba and Julie Bowen enjoyed a performance from Boyz ll Men after the silent auction raised more than million.Proud mom Jennifer Garner was also on-hand to accept an award from her friend and former co-star Matthew Mc Conaughey.
I really didn't want to hurt Jordan, and I felt torn about splitting our family up. I was nurturing Max and felt independent in the relationship.''I went right into filming Burlesque [in Autumn last year]. I had a lot of things stirring inside of me that I felt were being suppressed. In fact, getting married isn't high on Christina Aguilera and Matt Rutler's to-do list."Having just moved into a beautiful new home we call 'the Sanctuary,' having a baby, and now being excited to get back to work, I have my hands full and am not in a rush to set a date," says the six-time Grammy Award winner, who got engaged to Rutler on Valentine's Day in 2014. And it seems the same is true for Christina Aguilera and her new boyfriend Matt Rutler.The couple met on the set of her debut film Burlesque earlier in the year, but the singer says they didn't start dating until after she filed for divorce from her husband Jordan Bratman.