Have you ever taken a lady home expecting to “hump and dump,” but she wanted to start dating after?Or worse..lingered all morning and refused to leave? DON’T: Get too caught up in the moment to use a condom.This is obviously critical in any affair, as the moment one person becomes too attached, the dynamic changes and the other person can begin to feel trapped.After all, the affair is meant to be an escape from the hassles of a relationship!
DO: Before you go home with someone while drinking, assess whether she seems sober enough to be making a clear, rational decision.
But now the good news: I don't think you actually care about this guy, so you can just forget about it and move on. Plenty of people do both at different times in their lives.
It seems to me like the real issue here is that you feel guilty that you had sex, particularly when you were drunk, and so you're trying to turn it into a relationship to make yourself feel better about your actions. And if you feel like casual sex was a mistake for you, well, that's OK.
It turned out great, and he seemed really sweet and shy.
But here's the issue: He never seemed to want to get to know anything about me; he got straight to business. Bad news first: I don't think this guy is interested in getting to know you.