My cousin had a friend who I had previously met at another get together but we had never really spoken. Continue Reading → As mentioned in my previous post, I had met the host at a speed date event.Him contacting me after the event had taken me by surprise as it was rather unexpected. Continue Reading → I have been a little bad with my blogging again as I have been without internet access for the past months, travelling a little and also been taking breaks from the dating scene. Continue Reading → Just getting out and about, I have noticed that some Indian/Asian guys act a little differently when they see a female they find attractive and on trying to get their attention, display the most off-putting behaviours. Continue Reading → So like I mentioned in a previous post, this year has been a little busy on the dating side.Louise Whitehead-Payne, High50's dating columnist, left readers with a cliffhanger last week. A painfully slow 10 minutes later, my Samsung ringtone made my heart leap. It was slow and serious in delivery and rather severe in tone. I could come back if that was what I wanted, he said, but if I ever did this again, it would be well and truly over. So I left my steaming tea right where it was and jumped in the car.She ran out on her new boyfriend, Delightful Dick, the day after Christmas, came to her senses, called him to see if she could come back and got voicemail. He didn't give any indication of whether he was keen to have be back, but I suppose he wouldn't have phoned me if he wasn't. I would like to tell you that we leapt into each other's arms and reconciled with hot tears and declarations of love. Love Post-Divorce Dick told me he had spoken to a very lovely, wise friend of his that morning to let her know that I might not be coming to a party that she was throwing that evening. She had counseled him that I was only two years out of my marriage and might still have a lot of grieving to do.YOU ARE READING Humor Does it ever feel like no matter what you do, you suck when it comes to dating? Let me clarify, I helping people with their dating problems and questions.
BUT THEN, they'll message me saying I was right the entire time. Me to give them a gold friggen star for them being wrong? It means the gal is - politely - keeping your happy-ass tethered inside the friend-zone that so desperately tried to escape from. If you need me, I'll be silently wallowing in the corner with some hot-chocolate over how no one listens to the crazed ramblings of a single bitch. Feel free to comment or message me about your dating question/disaster/experience.I have tried to make an effort but he is either genuinely busy or not really bothered. If you talk on the phone everyday then only speak only a few times a week or only exchange texts here and there, this behavior is inconsistent and tells you that this man won’t be a long-term partner.I couldn't even understand it myself, was actually rather alarmed and might even get some counseling.Clearly it was difficult to commit that I most definitely wouldn't go a bit bonkers again, but I did promise that I would not walk out unless I really meant it to be forever.