If you and your ex-spouse share children, you will always be connected and have a need to cordially share information.
When you begin dating, your ex wants to make certain that anyone who has contact with the children you and he share is a safe person for the kids.
Your relationship will probably have fewer bumps if he learns it directly from you.
Send an email or text to your ex and ask to schedule a time for the two of you to chat.
Some people have really beautiful relationships with their exes, or friendly or civilized relationships. As in any relationship — platonic, romantic, familial, professional — you conduct yourself with dignity and according to the understanding of disclosure with the other party.If your ex was holding out hope that you might reconcile, he also wants to know when you are dating.If you don’t tell your ex, he could learn about it from your kids, family, friends, or from your social media page.The question Amanda initially posed to me, and responded to by my guest blogger, revolves around remaining friends with her ex while doing what is best for her daughter.QUESTION Dear Irene, My ex and I split three years ago after four years together. Since the breakup, we've managed to become good friends, and that's important to me.