It would have been nicer to try to create a sense of common humanity ("if only I could help shoulder some of your pain" instead of "whew, thank the Lord it happened to you and not me").Confused ignorance perpetuating your own biases even if they are well-meaning is pointless?
Opening up to Australia’s 15th anniversary edition of GQ magazine, Minogue reveals the frontman’s funeral was the first she ever attended. Minogue went through her first major musical and creative change while dating the INXS frontman – with many suspecting he was instrumental in her switch to an indie sound and grungier look.Then why should "thank God it's them" who suffer "instead of you?" Can we not just pray and ask God for mercy on these people? Band Aid may not even know if their money ever got to Ethiopia, but they we're doing something to help someone. Now, instead of bickering and complaining, maybe you should do something too. It can be a policeman putting a coat on a frightened child or a movie star who raised millions for a charity. Every year, for one day, I volunteer to help my local newspaper sell papers to benefit "Children's Hospital Central California".