Let’s make a list – this is sort of the average of what the majority of women want.
Many tell you right up front on the phone or first date. Men say things about dating like: This is the stuff you want to pay close attention too.
Any sentence about relationships that includes the word “but”.
By knowing what he wants – and not settling for anything less – he automatically gets viewed as a high-value man with standards and integrity. A second reason women date older men is that older guys aren’t so worried about trying to get somewhere in life – they’re already there.
I'm looking for a handsome, charming, erudite and wealthy man who takes care of his body.
But I haven't met him so far and always seem to prefer men half my age.
Now, providing for ourselves financially, money has afforded women the freedom to look for love outside the traditional, older, “provider” type of man, or even a peer partner. They maintain their youthful figures and energy and as a result, crave a romantic partner who looks as good and can keep pace.
This explains the sudden surge in May-December romances over the last 10 years.